Whether your New, young, Old or a "Pro", Grieving Hurts. No, its not far or predigest. Loss doesn't look for you, but it Finds you. You were meant for a higher realm of parenting. You can do it even if it feels like you cant. Look to a Higher Power, whether that be God or your belief. You cant carry that burden of losing a child young or old. God lost a child, so why wouldn't he understand. He wants Us to lean on Him in our time of need. Death is a sneaky thing but its a part of life and some learn that far to soon. Our books are pre-written we cant change that all we can do is learn to adapt. You don't just GET OVER the death, you learn to live with the pain of that loss. You cant just let go, you learn to see the little signs sent from heaven from your somebody. Whether that be pennies, feathers, or MOTHS, you learn the signs and you love to see them. Someone once told me that they miss you twice as much as you miss them because they see your pain but cant physically help. Learning the new you will be hard but find that one thing that you love to do and do it in HONOR of your angel. Don't Let others influence you, Don't get mad when they tell you they know how you feel( when you KNOW they don't), Don't ever change YOU. Your angel will guide you to the answer good or bad. Try to never stop communicating with your partner, husband, or close friend. Lean on them and let them lean back.
From one Grieving mother to another......I don't know how you feel but i do know what your going through. Take a shower, scream, cry, let your self feel the pain....Get out an look up and smile because you know your angel is smiling saying "you sure do look silly from my view." Write down your experience's, not to review right away, but rather yet to recall later. Lastly Smile, it wont feel like this forever, you will adapt and learn how to handle the pain.
Sincerely
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