Imagine going to the hospital, going to have a baby....and coming home empty handed. That's what I had to do. I had a 5lb 13oz little girl, whom yes had a broken heart. But we expected for her to come home a few weeks to months after her surgeries. Imagine having to tell a little boy who expected to see his kenni not bury her. Imagine going into an empty room you had just prepared for her. Imagine having to explain to your siblings that there niece wasn't going to make it. Imagine telling "happy" grandparents they would never get to spoil her. Imagine planning a life without the child you longed for and got and was taken back. Look at your children, say Kennedy's name "Kennedy Fallyn Thomas-Fuller", now look at your children again, be grateful for what you have things could always be worse!
People may thing but never ask, how come you brought Kennedy into the world knowing she would have issues...... My response if you were wondering....... My daughter had every reason to fight, I wanted her here so she could show me how to fight, she fought long and hard. Each day was a struggle, ups and downs. If your child has a chance to fight.... So did mine. She had a right to live just like you or I. My daughter had a 1-100 chance of being a heart baby, when she went to have kids she would have had a 25%chance of a heart baby. We have a 5% chance of having another heart baby.., scarier you have a 2% chance of having one SCARY I know.
Do me this as you go though the day and your child does something they shouldn't, give them a hug don't yell, you never know when there last little moments will be up!!!!
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