My childhood was a “normal”
childhood. I grew up with a mom and dad.
I was always a daddy’s girl. So when my parents decided to get a divorce it not
only rocked my world but blew it up. Not to mention I was about 3-4 weeks
pregnant. I am REAL close with my mom now. My dad doesn’t really want to be in
our, mine and my sibling’s life. So I have decides that he won’t be until he
realizes that what he has done and still is doing is wrong. My mom is my
“other” rock in my life. First one is my husband.
My relationship with my
sibling, Well there the ones born to me then the ones God has given me. I am
the oldest of 4. Alicia Vega-Russell is my sister; she just got married to
Mathew Russell. Those two are my biggest supporters. They come running if I
need them and it goes both ways. They don’t have any children; they just got
married June 13th, 2012. Mathew is a defensive end and Line man for
Wayland Next in line is my brother Joshua Vega. He is 17 and a senior at New
Deal High School. Josh broke his back a few years ago so we had to learn to
adjust because of sports and all. But he is the football team’s manager, He
does Cross country, Track and some baseball. Then comes Michael Vega…..Let’s
just say he is a breed all his own. Michael is the baby but yet he is bigger
than all of us. He is a freshman at New Deal High. He plays JV football…and
well he hasn’t decided yet. Both of my brother show stock at stock shows. We
are all real close we talk on the phone mainly through text daily. Alicia lives
in Plainview but visits VERY OFFEN. I and she are closer now that we aren’t
living under the same roof. We had issues when we were younger but know have
learned from it and moved on. All of us at least try to get together at least
once a month and all go out and do something fun as a family.
Our marriage…..Michael was not
the typical guy my parents or siblings could see me with. They told me he was
different, and boy were they right. We started dating September 6th
2008 after being best friends for about 3 months. We met through Michaels
Brother……Actually me and his brother were “Talking”—thinking about dating. But
we decided we were better of friends. Then me and Michael started hanging out
more and more. Then on July 4th of
2010 Michael asked me to marry him…..I was mad because I had to be up at
5am the next morning and it was already 10pm. I am a very scheduled person by
the way and I know how much sleep I need. I wanted a long engagement so we
could live together and “get to know” each other, How they run what make them
tick. We married September 6th of 2011 at College Heights Baptist
church……I had wanted a winter wedding but because of threats made by My Soon to
be mother in law we wed early. I and Michael aren’t perfect but as far as
conflict…..We talk most of it out. If either one of us has an issue we sit and
talk about it. No big decisions are made until we both come to an agreement. As
far as our “sexual relationship” our relationship wasn’t built on sex. Sex for
me is a VERY private thing that should only happen if both parties are ready. I
mean we aren’t celibate, But we keep things behind closed doors. Our strengths,
I would say is our communication, if one of us isn’t happy we talk about it
until we are blue in the face. Our weakness…….our good heartedness, we can’t
say no, no matter what.
Michael’s personality…..well
he is goofy, loving, and super head strong (but in a good way). He is my rock,
and my best friend. We laugh, we cry, we grow together. Our marriage isn’t perfect, but it’s our kind
of perfect. Kennedy Fallyn Thomas-Fuller 5lb 13 oz born July 5th
2012. Kennedy had a Congenital Heart Defect…..She was born with a broken heart
for the lack of better terms Hypoplasty left Heart Syndrome and Mitral Valve Stenosis. She underwent a procedure that put a
stent in her aorta at 2 days old, and at 3 days she had open heart to get the
stent out and place pulmonary bands on her lungs. Kenni was our angel. We weren’t
sure if we could even have kids due to my mom’s issues. Kenni heart stopped at
3 days old….worse day ever. After this she caught a yeast infection in her
chest cavity. Kennedy had good days and bad. She just never recovered. At 22
days old…..Kennedy Fallyn was called home to Heaven. Kennedy caught NECK….a bowel
obstruction. I am very thank full for the 22 days I had with our princess.
Me…..well I am an open book. I
worked at my father’s house until Kennedy. Because of her heart I had decided
to become a stay at home mommy. I plan on returning to school soon. My
personality….I am fun, loving, and caring. My appearance….Brown/reddish hair,
green eyes. I am very happy with the way I look.
Loss….Has become second nature
to me sadly. I lost my grandmother 4 yrs ago in July, My grandfather 4 yrs ago
in November, My uncle 4 yrs ago in December, and My best friend 2 yrs ago. My
daughter July 27th 2012. I have a good support group In order to
help me handle this.
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