Ok, To clear the air..... I dont care if my friends get pregnant. It matters how much they rub it in my face. I get it you have something i dont, but what you dont realize......I didnt grip that she never made it home. You grip about wakeing up to pee or to change diaper. What i would give just to do that, do you not understand YOU ARE BLESSD. You get disgusted when i post pictures of my daughter....SHE IS A WARRIOR, not a monster dont look at her that way. She FOUGHT!!! SHE LOST!! But she TRYED.....More than what you can say right? Dont complain...If you get pregnant...dont complain and take care of your self. Thats something that bugs me, NOT TAKING CARE OF YOURSELF....I did everything by the book and My daughter still got a CHD.
I was a statisic. You how ever are in the majority with a "NORMAL: baby"....BE BLESSED. I have a 5% chance of having another with a CHD, you however have a 1-2%...see my issue. But yet you would be the one that get angry if i get pregnant again. saying things like " she is pregnant AGAIN, oh yeah she just had one it died so she had to replace it with another on." MY CHILD IS NOT AN IT!!! Yes she PASSED away, Yes i just had her, but no i am not replacing her. She will always be our first. Now wouldnt you love to have the task of telling your other children about the older siser lwhich they have never met or will never know.
So no i wont get mad if friends get pregnant(there choice), just be causious on how you say things, and make sure you take care of youself. And get a pulse ox when the baby is born.
Cassie-well said. I hope others wouldn't really say those things to you. You will never replace your beautiful daughter. She holds that special place in your heart. She will always be your first :)
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